Step into the craft room at Maryknoll on a sunny afternoon and you’ll find a scene that warms the heart: a lively group of ladies gathered around a table, cards in hand, smiles on their faces, and plenty of good-natured chatter filling the air. They’re playing Quiddler, a clever little word game that’s become a much-loved tradition here.

“It’s a bit like Scrabble—but with cards,” explains Sandra Wilson, the youngest of the group at 79. “You pick up a card, swap your letters around, and try to make the best words you can. I had ‘man,’ but then I picked up an ‘i’ and turned it into ‘main.’ That’s more points!” she says with a grin.

The regulars are an inspiring bunch:
• Corrie Van de Pas (93)
• Wilma Raymond (94)
• Sandra Wilson (79)
• And the reigning champion, Joan Lothian (103), who walks up from Mount Carmel and almost always wins.

Helping keep the game running smoothly is volunteer Deb Feltham, who’s been part of this tradition for seven years.

“I learned Quiddler from Norma Cowper, one of Maryknoll’s long-time residents,” Deb says. “It’s such a great game for keeping the mind active—and everyone’s welcome to join.” Over the years, the group has seen many faces come and go, but the laughter and camaraderie never fade. “It’s wonderful to see these ladies
staying so engaged,” Deb reflects. “Quiddler is great for memory, language skills, even stroke recovery. And honestly—it’s just fun!”

As the cards shuffle and words take shape—“coin,” “star,” “main”—there’s plenty of friendly teasing, especially when Joan wins yet again. Later, Craig from the care staff arrives with an offer of tea and cake for afternoon tea, which everyone enjoys. For these women, Quiddler isn’t just a game. It’s a reason to gather, to laugh, to share stories, and to keep their minds sharp. It’s proof that staying connected is the real winning hand.